To My Third Boss

  • Open a little at a time —
    you are not granite.
  • Rub soft colors around your prissy mouth,
    listen to the flute outside our window;
  • when we frustrate you,
    as we will most certainly do,
  • being prone to laughing too much,
    and working with our voice mails blocked —
  • remember the cool, dark trees you saw out skiing:
    think of the words, “cool and calm,”
  • surrounding you in your room.
    If your tension continues to increase,
  • drift over white snow and lower your head slowly,
    to study the ragged prints of birds.
  • When you are ready to pelt us with tart words,
    remember your grandmother.
  • Pull her out of the pot of your regret, pull out
    her arthritic hands and feet and uncurl them gently.
  • Say good morning to grandmother's hands,
    bringing tears to your eyes.
  • Open and stretch a little at a time:
    try belching and guffawing.
  • Finger paint a Mandela;
    get one of your friends to bring you an ice cream
  • so big you will be eating it for half an hour;
    spill it on your blouse and don't wipe it off —
  • go out into the street and fall in love
    with a man who dances while he walks.